Jamie Samuel Ashton

1985 - 2003
LocationBridlington
Age18 years
Cause of DeathOrgan Failure
Date of Birth18/11/1985
Date of Death05/12/2003
Visitors1,586 since 05/02/2008
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Jamie Ashton Died age 18 in Driffield 5th December 2003 in a car accident he was the back passenger of the car. jamie was to hurt in the car crash and died on the scene after so many people tried to save Jamie's life .He was a jack the lad very smiley and full of energy.Jamie adored my children and would love to hug me and the kids he only got to meet Chloe once as a baby before he died .I always talk to chloe about Jamie So she will always know who you are to her .Jamie was a really funny kind lad he was ace and me and Jamie was very much the same in a lot of ways . After Jamie died my whole life fell apart i got poorly and i separated from my partner at the time i still struggle to come to terms with the death of my lovely brother i don't think i ever will , i lost a best friend and a Brother the pain is always there still like it happened yesterday.I know that Jamie is with me everyday and watching me from above with the angels he would probably be telling me off for some of the things i have done.He always looked out for his family and will always be my best friend i love you so much Jamie and each day its harder you not being with us all and not seeing my kids grow up it breaks my heart not having you around anymore .I am gaining strength slowly now like Jamie would expect me too.I miss you Jamie so much and the love we shared and the laughs we had .The pain is always there each day and one thing i learnt was that life is to short and that if i could have one more chance with Jamie i would tell him how proud i was to have a brother like him and how much i loved him and looked up too him .My little boy Jordan still crys to this day that you died Jordan misses you so much and has nightmares some nights he finds it so hard Jamie that your not around and misses you looking after him .I would do anything to have you back and have the life i once had . Jamie was doing well with his life before he died he had a job working with chickens and he liked one specific chicken who use to follow him about the yard Jamie wanted to take this chicken home lol it was his favourite .Jamie was a very popular guy he had alot of friends who miss him terribly and his family who just try to get along each day .Jamie was a love-able guy and was well know in Bridlington and driffield hes a special guy you could meet he always looked out for this family and friends. I miss you so much my heart is empty without you ,When you died Jamie a part of me died with you , But i will stay strong and i cant wait to meet you again and give you all the hugs i have missed giving you and the chats we had your always in my heart and a very much loved uncle to Jordan and chloe xxx
Love Gemma xxx


I am so tired of being here suppressed by all of my childish fears and if you have to leave i wish you would just leave because your presence still lingers here and it wont leave me alone .
These wounds wont seem to heal this pain its just too real theres too much that time cannot erase .
When you cried i would wipe away all your tears when you screamed i would fight away all of your fears
I held your hand through all of these years but you still have all of me.
you used to captivate me by your resonating light but now I am bound by the life you left behind your face it haunts my once pleasant dreams your voice it chased away all the sanity in me .
I tried so hard to tell myself that you have gone and though you're still with me i have been alone all along .


Tom wardill died not long after writing on Jamies site a other tragic story Tom was a good Friend to me for alot of years i miss and love you both look after each other you are both in my heart and always will be xxx.


Its OK to grieve the loss of your brother and wonder why .
its okay to need to be alone , to feel your loss in your own way.
its okay to be confused ,
to doubt ,
to wonder if you will ever feel the same again
and its okay to take all the the time you need until you are over this sadness until bright memories come to take away your tears .


Jamie even though you are gone and had to go away
i will never forget the times we had and love we shared
that sister love for you will never go away
i will never forget you and your always in my heart every day i cry for you but until we meet again good night brother xxxx

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Tributes

To See You Once Again

Josette Kerns

I wish with all my heart I could see you once more,
I would use that moment and time to tell you how
Much love my heart holds for you and I shall never
Close that door.

Life each and every day with out you keeps going on
Even if some days I do not wish it I know I am being
Selfish and maybe even wrong, but to see you just once
More I so very much long.

I try to remember all the loving and happy times we
Were granted to enjoy and share, I try to understand
And not cry but to see you once more even only for a
moment to let you know just how very much I do care.

I know that day will eventually come when its my turn
To this world to say goodbye, But until then I shall hold
your love close to my heart, and sometimes I shall break
Down and cry, and I will still ask the question why did you
have to die?

Phyllis Frazier Harris

November 18, 2009

Every time you entered a room every one would no you were there!! You had a heart of gold with so much soul boy you were loved by every one and are missed so much take care of the ones who love you so much and will miss you for such a long time all my love Trim Psssssshhhhhhh xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Jessica Trim

April 24, 2009

Its too much at times

Jamie i love you sooo much.I am sat drinking and feeling so down i miss you so much and it is nearly your birthday 18th November the years keep going by and its harder than ever before.I wish you was hear so i can talk to you about stuff in stead of feeling so alone as i cant talk to my family about you.Thinking about you all the time the kids are doing well and Chloe you would love her she is so cute and at school now and looks great in her school uniform . I wont ever forget you xxx

Gemma Ashton (Sister)

November 5, 2008

miss u babe

i love u so much words cant explain i miss u so much my tears cant say so many things i wish i said t u but never really got chance t say. there is not a minute in the day that goes by that i dont think about u ur truely missed. ur always in my heart. i still cant get over the fact ur gne i still think im gonna see u out n about god i miss u so much its untrue look down on us all n guid us the right way LOVE U SO MUCH JAY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Sami Donnison (Close Friend)

August 23, 2008

missed everyday

hey j hope your flying high with the angels mate....... your such a specil person 1 of a kind missed everyday loved in everyway............................................... nite mate sleep tight look after tom,and jess will ya xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Sammy (Friend)

June 15, 2008

RIP MATE

Now mate i sat looking after your sis she still anoying as she was mate wat u think to Leeds in devision 1 even though i suport man u I will say a pray for u and leeds mate sleep well i will see you soon enough so make sure you get drinks in u know wat i drink mate so c u in a bit we all miss you take care bud tom x

Tom Wardill (Friend)

February 23, 2008

r.i.p

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Shanice (passer)

February 14, 2008

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.Special ROse I picked with care
nO thOrns are On it anywhere
Sweetest petals I cOuld find
Friendship's beauty nOw defined


Each day when yOu're sad Or blue
This gentle ROse I send tO yOu
sO yOu will knOw that I am near
Friendships true wOn't disappear


FOrever I will Offer yOu
A flOwer and a prayer Or twO
On my mind you'll always be
Grateful fOr yOu cOnstantly


If you need me I am here
Every day thrOughOut the year
KnOwing that yOu've been the best
Friendship with a rOse be blest

Cheri Wardill (Friend)

February 5, 2008
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